Feminine Sexuality Is Not Only What You Want, Dick: An Open Letter

by:  Cassandra Warren 

 

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Dedicated to Jennifer.

 

An open letter to Men who treat feminine sexuality only as a reflection of what they want from it. Original reading at Chicago Zine Fest Valentine’s Day Benefit, Feb. 11, 2013.

It didn’t start out this way.   It was casual.

You said you understood what page She was on. You said you could handle it.

You said you appreciated Her honesty.

You laughed together.    You loved.    You adored Her pussy.

Now.    Now things are different.

 

I wish you would. Wish you would come over here and chat with me.

But I know you’re afraid. You should be afraid.

Afraid of all the truth I’d lay down to you. All the questions you’d have to answer to, like what is it in your life that lead you to believe that you should have control over Her and Her relationships? Where did the information get twisted in your mind that you were the one She should answer to? That you determine who She makes eyes at?

Just because you thought She’d make out to be your beautiful Wife.

 

Why did you resort to targeting the feminine sexuality just because you couldn’t take the truth, you couldn’t communicate, you made fantasies up in your head?

Why is the demise of your power, privilege and control the instigator to blaming Her body, Her sexuality. You didn’t get what you wanted and now you turn the situation into a scenario in which She is made to apologize for her sexuality– as if it were detachable/separate, where She is made to blame.

 

Fuck that.

 

We are whole human beings, and that includes Our pussy and we are not to be separated out for your enjoyment or for your blame. This is not the source of the problems you helped to create, and if you knew that, well honey, you wouldn’t be in this situation in the first place.

 

We – this means our collective selves, us and our pussies—will not be made to rise against you in the scenario you have given. This is not a battlefield in which We will defend Ourselves, Our actions or apologize to you.

Because We have no apology and neither do our cunts. We say, go fuck yourself.

 

Not all men are dicks, not all men have dicks, and a cunt can surely be a dick. 

 

 

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